* If anything should happen to me or *
when the time comes for my body to leave *
this world and for my soul to leave the human
flesh and blood, please do remember that I fully
lived, I fully laughed. Please also do remember that
I loved without boundaries. & that I made, if not all
of them, most of my dreams come true. The few that
I have left are for you to make into reality in your
own beautiful kind of way. If you want, that is.
* Do it your *
* way or don’t do it at all. That is how I see it. *
* Don’t consider my wishes the slightest. It is for you *
* to take upon. & please do promise me to fully live, to fully
laugh and to love without boundaries. My biggest wish is that
you take any necessary means in order for you to stay true to *
your true nature. & for you to Be kind not only to others but also
to yourself.
Do not let others dictate your life. Pursue whatever dream that
comes your way. Acquire the skills you need to learn in order
to be who you always were meant to become. And do not be
too afraid to ask for help and guidance when you get stuck
or you are being overwhelmed by unpleasant intense feelings
* or that particular fear that got hold of you or that particular
voice (not your own, obviously), the voice of somebody else *
who does not walk in your shoes. Never has. Guide not only *
yourself but those around you especially the ones who do not
actively seek help. Be kind. But don’t be blind to the unfortunate
of bad habits and bad behaviour. Or bad thinking. Say thank
* you when you are being helped do not stop thanking your- *
* self for rising to the occasion even though life treated you *
poorly or badly. Because it is in the unfairness in the obvious;
that life is neither fair or easy. Apologize when you are in the
wrong but also apologize to those younger versions of your-
* self for not knowing better at the time. Be grateful for *
what you have but do not forget or neglect to thank
* yourself for all the efforts ou do on a daily *
basis in the pursuit becoming
a better human being.
Be proud of who you are as today
& always strive to be the person you were
always were meant to be. And least but not last,
love yourself unconditionally at all times, in every
situation, in the preset, in the past and in the future.
Love yourself unconditonally for past encounters you
who didn’t approach the way you would have done as
of today.
* Love yourself for the present version *
* you are. Love yourself for doing your absolutely
best with all that you have and all that you are. Love
yourself for the future you who will grow into your full
potential. & in doing so, you will be the guiding light, *
guiding force and guiding torch to those around you.
* And remember me as I was; perfectionally im- *
perfect with all my assets, resources & liabilities.
The liabilities made me who I am today. Thus.
They are not to underestimate under any *
* * * * * * given situation. * * * * * *
GONG Jae Ok 